Something to help?
Obligatory "I'm not sure if I'm in the right place" comment.
I recently underwent a bone marrow harvest and I was informed I could have contact (letters, small gifts) with my recipient through an NMDP coordinator. I want to send something that they might be able to use,or something that might make things easier during the time ahead. (A snuggie?) Is there anything that fits the bill? |
I know from experience that nothing is more welcome than a heartfelt letter between a donor and a recipient, so that's much more important than a gift. You can't provide personal information about yourself in your note (an NMDP rule), but you can certainly write about how you feel about donating and your hopes for your recipient.
If you also feel the need to send a gift, a warm non-scratchy blanket of any size, for example a lap blanket, would be both thoughtful and likely very practical. A regular blanket works for everyone, while a Snuggie-type garment with sleeves might not fit. Your recipient might be a child! Another choice would be something personal, like a home-made good-luck charm or a book or poem that inspires you. Avoid food and plants for medical reasons. |
I am touched that after giving a stranger a new lease on life with your selfless gift of a marrow donation, your next thought is to reach out to them and let them know you are thinking about them in the challenging days ahead.
I'm an SAA survivor who was fortunate enough to respond well to immunosuppressive treatment. Of course I hope I'm never in need of transplant. But since my siblings are not a match, if it ever comes to that, my life too will depend on the selfless love of a stranger like you. Thank you for your generosity, and for being a hero to someone in utmost need. |
Thanks for the replies guys.
Neil, I think I'm going for something warm. Maybe a beanie, or a nice cap for winter. Unless I'm mistaken the process usually ends up with some hair loss. On a side note, I have a very strong suspicion that my recipient, or rather someone posting on his his behalf, recently posted here. I found your forum with some good old fashioned google-fu. KMac, Thanks for the kind words. This was a life changing experience for me. On paper things should be fine, but I'm not very happy with the status quo before the donation. I feel like I need to continue to make a difference and right now, this is the best way to keep the ball rolling. |
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My wife was convinced that her donor was on the east coast of the U.S. because of the time of day when her marrow arrived by courier on the west coast. We didn't know for a year, but she turned out to be correct. |
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You're running a great place here. It's an amazing community that helps each other. |
I had a STC trans 3 yrs ago, and I have never had any contact w/ my donor. I've heard diff things abt privacy laws etc. It is indeed a great and generous act to donate marrow/ stem cells. Last yr around X-mas time I just hppnd upon a donor going through the harvesting process at the hospital where I was treated. I told them the same thing. Your generosity will not go unrecognized here!
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