I'll get there, my nature is to question, which can sometimes be a negative and things moved faster than we first thought. Having the first meeting less than two weeks before admission did not help, but it is what it is. Plus I think there is naturally some apprehension when the time gets close.
There is another appointment scheduled for Monday so I'll have a list of questions ready. You are so right when you say you need to understand what will happen. We still do not know which sibling they will pick, his brother comes down on Monday for all his final bloodwork.
Thanks

Debbie