Patti and Dean,
We've been through so much together, at a distance, that it's hard to find the right words to say.
You've always looked forward, done what's best, and had so much courage. So let's talk about the future, not the past.
I hear nothing but praise for the caring people who provide hospice services. There's so much to be said for a peaceful environment, caring attention, and treatment focused on comfort.
If you want to read about what typically happens, medically, after treatment can no longer be continued, there's a
forum thread about it, but of course nobody can accurately predict the specifics or the timeline.
I hope you can use your time to talk, reminisce, and love each other and those around you. That's what we should all remember to do, no matter where we are in the journeys of our lives.
I have nothing but good wishes to send your way and I will be thinking about both of you every day.