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Hello Scott, sorry to hear about your Dad's mood swings. Being an independent, strong, hard-working and active man, I can only imagine his personal struggles. My father has wrestled with the same demons, and despises being dependent on Mom and me.
I think Marlene's advice is excellent. Additionally, is there a pastor, close family friend, or does Dad have anyone he is close to who might be able to step in and help you. My Dad's Sunday school teacher has been a wonderful support for our family, but especially for Dad. I occassionally call him and ask him to stop by just to chat with Dad, especially when I notice him acting out-of-sorts or a bit down. It's a nice break for Dad (he must be getting tired of just me, Mom, doctors and nurses!), and has been very encouraging for him. That's my 2 cents, hope it helps.
Scott, you've been a fantastic son and caregiver for your father. I know he loves you unconditionally! My heart goes out to you. Deb
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