good luck to both of you - you can pull through this
It must be really tough to have experienced remission then have this disease come back after so many years have passed. I was a really avid runner prior to diagnosis and despite my physician's advice I do occasionally sneak out for 3-4 mile runs - my platelets are low (below 20) and the following day I have extensive petichiae but after a day or two of rest they resolve then I'm out there running again. I'm definitely not suggesting that anyone does this but in life you have gotta do what you love or else you will really be in bad shape!!
I hope that you both are able to have children and stability post treatment.
Michelle